Friday 29 November 2013

@ LoVe / KaDaL / IsHq / PrEmA.......

Whatever we call ,it is the same amazing and magical feeling.so, do we have a definition for this feeling!!!
of course yes,
                  It is the trust we have on someone that they will stand by us,whatever happens in our life.do we have any types in love?? ...the answer is yes again.according to me,types of love are as follows...

*Parental love :- we can say that this is the first ever love we experience in our life.it is the first true love we get in this world.there are no much expectations in this kind of love.

*Love at first sight :- when u see someone, gets impressed with their physical appearance and want to build a relation with them, we call it love at first sight.the expectations here completely revolve around physical bonding.

*One side love :-when someone have a unconditional admiration for a person i.e without expressing their love or even after getting rejected by that person,then i think we can call it one side love.this kind of love expects nothing but a sweet smile from the one being admired.

*Adolescent love :- this kind of love is out of infatuation or due  to the impact of movies or by some other kind of attraction.In such love,the most common expectation would be romance.such relations break ,once they clear off their confusions of teenage.

*Calculated love :- such love is out of calculations including financial and social status.there are neither any  expectations nor affections in such relations.

*Adjustment love :- when two people are bound by  an unbreakable relation or when they can't separate due to situations/circumstances,adjustment love comes into picture.when they don't have an option,they have to adjust and hence emerges a love or bond out of adjustment.

*Pure love :- this can happen when there is a complete understanding between two persons and when they have a healthy respect for each other as well as for their relation.in such love,they expect nothing but love in return.

                 The above stated types of love may convert from one type to another type sometimes.they can start at a particular type and end in a different type based on the persons and situations.
                Apart from this we also have,
*Love out of devotion or admiration :- "i love A.R.Rehman","i love Lord Krishna".what does that mean?? ...this can be out of  devotion /admiration for a person or his actions.

*Love out of affection :- "i love my brother","i love my sister","i love my friend".such loves are out of the affection we have for that person.

                                                 " I LOVE YOU"
This eight lettered expression we use can never be confined to a particular kind of love.love is universal and love is infinity.never insult this precious feeling by restricting it to a particular expression or by hurting others feelings.
         LOVE OTHERS.but before that LEARN TO RESPECT THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS.without this your love can never be called as LOVE.......



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Tuesday 19 November 2013

ExIsTeNcE oF LOVE !!!!!!

what is Love!!!!



          Love is a wonderful feeling which can't be expressed,love is heaven,love is awesome ,love is divine,love is deaf,love is blind,love is dumb..what not !!!..but i don't understand one thing....does love ever ask you to sacrifice friends,parents and career!!!! ... when people are love-struck, they don't mind ignoring their friends,parents and career.. but is that really necessary???
          Does it make any sense leaving your loved ones for your so called love..when we don't know the value of parent's love,can we really love a person!!! .....i don't know if it's relevant or not,but i feel like mentioning an sms by my friend


   # you lie to your parents for your lover,but why not to lover for your parents
   # to marry your lover,you leave your parents but why don't you leave your lover for your parents
   # you ask your lover whether he/she has taken lunch on time..but have you ever asked the same question to your parents
   # you leave all your bad habits by one promise to your lover,but why not after repeated advice of your mom?

      IF YOU VALUE YOUR PARENTS,PARENTS ARE REAL GODS ON EARTH                "

          love is never a mistake but love with selfishness is definitely a mistake...if you love someone,fight for your love...if you choose to run away,then first question the existence of your love!!!




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Sunday 3 November 2013

HAPPY DIWALI FOLKS :) :)

Hi everyone.....First of all wish u all a VERY HAPPY DIWALI....I know i m late and sorry for that

Let me start my non-sense now....i have two questions for you.....
            1. "Why do we celebrate Diwali??"
            2. "How do we celebrate Diwali??"
                   
                       You must thinking that i have gone crazy with the festival fever but NO. let me start off...

Answers for my questions are as follows :
   1. As of our epics are concerned, be it in Treta yuga(where Sree ram came back to Ayodhya after his victory over Ravan{రావణాసురుడు }) or in Dwapar yuga ( considering narakasura's death) ,it is celebrated for the victory of morals/ethics.
   2. For the second question,my answer goes like this"we lighten lamps,wear new dresses,crackers,special food,temple, blah blah blah" .
      Now i have another question for you... "Why are we celebrating diwali now??"

                        So,by now you must have confirmed that i am completely mad...so let me explain my question...when narakavadha{నరకవధ }(death of narakasura{నరకాసుర }) and all other stories written in our puranas happened long back i.e. centuries back, why  are we still celebrating diwali?? ....by now it must be making some sense.
                       Now the answer is really simple,it is just to remember that victory happens to be obvious for the one who stands for ethics and morals. on such auspicious occations we lighten lamps and hence ask god to enlighten us which is nothing but...
                         "tamasoma jyotirgamaya {తమసోమా  జ్యోతిర్గమయ }"
which means "bring us back to light from darkness".i neither suggest you to blindly follow or leave our traditions completely but it is better to understand the morals behind traditions.The intension behind celebrating a festival can never be polluting the environment.Neither Diwali is meant for creating noise and air pollution nor ganesh chaturthi is for polluting water.so let us protect our environment.
    Wish a very happy and safe diwali to one and all....Astalivista





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