@ LoVe / KaDaL / IsHq / PrEmA.......

Whatever we call ,it is the same amazing and magical feeling.so, do we have a definition for this feeling!!!
of course yes,
                  It is the trust we have on someone that they will stand by us,whatever happens in our life.do we have any types in love?? ...the answer is yes again.according to me,types of love are as follows...

*Parental love :- we can say that this is the first ever love we experience in our life.it is the first true love we get in this world.there are no much expectations in this kind of love.

*Love at first sight :- when u see someone, gets impressed with their physical appearance and want to build a relation with them, we call it love at first sight.the expectations here completely revolve around physical bonding.

*One side love :-when someone have a unconditional admiration for a person i.e without expressing their love or even after getting rejected by that person,then i think we can call it one side love.this kind of love expects nothing but a sweet smile from the one being admired.

*Adolescent love :- this kind of love is out of infatuation or due  to the impact of movies or by some other kind of attraction.In such love,the most common expectation would be romance.such relations break ,once they clear off their confusions of teenage.

*Calculated love :- such love is out of calculations including financial and social status.there are neither any  expectations nor affections in such relations.

*Adjustment love :- when two people are bound by  an unbreakable relation or when they can't separate due to situations/circumstances,adjustment love comes into picture.when they don't have an option,they have to adjust and hence emerges a love or bond out of adjustment.

*Pure love :- this can happen when there is a complete understanding between two persons and when they have a healthy respect for each other as well as for their relation.in such love,they expect nothing but love in return.

                 The above stated types of love may convert from one type to another type sometimes.they can start at a particular type and end in a different type based on the persons and situations.
                Apart from this we also have,
*Love out of devotion or admiration :- "i love A.R.Rehman","i love Lord Krishna".what does that mean?? ...this can be out of  devotion /admiration for a person or his actions.

*Love out of affection :- "i love my brother","i love my sister","i love my friend".such loves are out of the affection we have for that person.

                                                 " I LOVE YOU"
This eight lettered expression we use can never be confined to a particular kind of love.love is universal and love is infinity.never insult this precious feeling by restricting it to a particular expression or by hurting others feelings.
         LOVE OTHERS.but before that LEARN TO RESPECT THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS.without this your love can never be called as LOVE.......

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ExIsTeNcE oF LOVE !!!!!!

what is Love!!!!

          Love is a wonderful feeling which can't be expressed,love is heaven,love is awesome ,love is divine,love is deaf,love is blind,love is dumb..what not !!!..but i don't understand one thing....does love ever ask you to sacrifice friends,parents and career!!!! ... when people are love-struck, they don't mind ignoring their friends,parents and career.. but is that really necessary???
          Does it make any sense leaving your loved ones for your so called love..when we don't know the value of parent's love,can we really love a person!!! .....i don't know if it's relevant or not,but i feel like mentioning an sms by my friend

" 
   # you lie to your parents for your lover,but why not to lover for your parents
   # to marry your lover,you leave your parents but why don't you leave your lover for your parents
   # you ask your lover whether he/she has taken lunch on time..but have you ever asked the same question to your parents
   # you leave all your bad habits by one promise to your lover,but why not after repeated advice of your mom?

      IF YOU VALUE YOUR PARENTS,PARENTS ARE REAL GODS ON EARTH                "

          love is never a mistake but love with selfishness is definitely a mistake...if you love someone,fight for your love...if you choose to run away,then first question the existence of your love!!!

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HAPPY DIWALI FOLKS :) :)

Hi everyone.....First of all wish u all a VERY HAPPY DIWALI....I know i m late and sorry for that

Let me start my non-sense now....i have two questions for you.....

            1. "Why do we celebrate Diwali??"

            2. "How do we celebrate Diwali??"

                   

                       You must thinking that i have gone crazy with the festival fever but NO. let me start off...

Answers for my questions are as follows :

   1. As of our epics are concerned, be it in Treta yuga(where Sree ram came back to Ayodhya after his victory over Ravan{రావణాసురుడు }) or in Dwapar yuga ( considering narakasura's death) ,it is celebrated for the victory of morals/ethics.

   2. For the second question,my answer goes like this"we lighten lamps,wear new dresses,crackers,special food,temple, blah blah blah" .

      Now i have another question for you... "Why are we celebrating diwali now??"

                        So,by now you must have confirmed that i am completely mad...so let me explain my question...when narakavadha{నరకవధ }(death of narakasura{నరకాసుర }) and all other stories written in our puranas happened long back i.e. centuries back, why  are we still celebrating diwali?? ....by now it must be making some sense.

                       Now the answer is really simple,it is just to remember that victory happens to be obvious for the one who stands for ethics and morals. on such auspicious occations we lighten lamps and hence ask god to enlighten us which is nothing but...

                         "tamasoma jyotirgamaya {తమసోమా  జ్యోతిర్గమయ }"

which means "bring us back to light from darkness".i neither suggest you to blindly follow or leave our traditions completely but it is better to understand the morals behind traditions.The intension behind celebrating a festival can never be polluting the environment.Neither Diwali is meant for creating noise and air pollution nor ganesh chaturthi is for polluting water.so let us protect our environment.

    Wish a very happy and safe diwali to one and all....Astalivista

                               I would look forward for your support and expect your valuable suggestions.you can drop me a mail at freakinghoney@gmail.com/follow my blog on g+ .

FRIENDSHIP,friendship and fRiEnDsHiP

                              First of all , sorry that i took so much time for my second post.I have been thinking of many topics and wanted it to be really interesting,but couldn't find anything more interesting than friendship.I felt FRIENDSHIP is that feeling/relation that keeps this world together.Without friendship ,there can be no good relations between states,countries,regions and religions.Without friendship there is nothing left in this world.friendship is the base of any relation be it a relation between individuals/countries/companies.

                               Friendship be it professional or personal,gives us a support with which we can make the output of anything better.if we have to discuss it in detail,we have to start with a basic question:

            

                               "What is FRIENDSHIP???"

                               Though the answers for this question differs from person to person,for me FRIENDSHIP is a relation that is built on the foundation of TRUST. As of my views are concerned, if we trust a person to an extent,we feel comfortable talking to them as well as sharing our views,perspectives and problems with them.Although,this may not help us sort out all the issues,it at-least gives us a support with which we can face them.

If we have to mark off the types of friends,they can be as follows:

Friends:- this is that category of friends who are really active when in touch and dont even care when not in contact.this generally happens with some of our classmates who dont even remember us after loosing contact.

Close friends:- they are the people with whom you feel comfortable sharing your feelings and we can call them a feel good company.

Best friends:- this is that set of friends with whom you can share anything and everything.even if we don't do that, they will be able to say whether we are happy or not, just by looking at us.this happens out of an utmost understanding of a person and,a complete sync of minds and a very similar thinking.such friends rarely come into your life and once they are in,they will never go out of  your life.

i think,if we have n number of friends ,10% of the can be your close friends and 0.5 % them can be your best friends.

apart from these,we also have:

Professional friends:- we generally meet such people at our workplace wherein we share a really professional bond with discussions on work and work and work.other than that we may have some general discussions but this relation is just confined to the workplace and once we come out of it,the bond is lost.

Online friends:- such friends happen to come into your life through social networking sites and there is a chance of them making an impact on your life,better or worse based on the persons and situations.to accept or decline such friendships is purely based on the particular individual.

                      As of my knowledge is concerned,these are the major types of friends.we are in a world which looks at everything in a "loss-gain" perspective.hence, we can say friendship is a 95% gain and a 5% loss business.

                      I know it was almost like an essay answer so enough of it now and I am really thankful for sparing your time to read this post.meet you with my next post soon.I do welcome all your comments and suggestions.you can even drop me a mail at freakinghoney@gmail.com/follow my blog on g+ .

ACTUAL VIEWS OF MY InNeR vIeWs

Hey hiee guys i am honey...i know you people are like fed up with lakhs of blogs posting loads of stuff everyday..but this blog is out of my passion for blogging...to be clear i am just gonna post the things i feel like sharing with you guys...if u wanna follow it you can or else you can just ignore it...to introduce you about my blog ,it is all about the general stuff , technically you can call it a personal blog...but dont worry i am not gonna irritate you with all my personal stuff....i am just going to discuss about some or the other issue, let it be current affairs or any other intresting topic...hope you guys like it....yipppeeee finally i started my blog.....